Leave it to a country song to go right to the heart of the matter and tell it like it is. “You don’t like me, but you don’t know me” describes prejudice almost as well as the dictionary. It says that prejudice is an unfavorable opinion or feeling formed beforehand or without knowledge or reason. Prejudge, a closely related word, is to pass judgement prematurely without sufficient reflection or investigation. It exists between nations and is called ethnocentrism—the belief that one’s own ethnic group or culture is superior to all others. Sadly, it also exists in nearly every human heart. Before getting to know someone we sometimes revert to stereotypes and labels.
It has been said, “You only get one chance to make a first impression.” Although that may be literally true, often no chance at all is extended to others. It is very possible to explain, enhance, polish or change an impression over an extended time frame. We often hear the words bigot and intolerant linked to prejudice. If they are used in the realm of interpersonal relationships, then the criticism is probably valid. There are, however, some things and actions in which one can fairly form an opinion without deep investigation. We have been created with 5 senses, a conscience, intuition, and can develop observation skills and experience to evaluate certain situations. Sometimes a barking dog will also bite. Trust but verify is still sound advice. There are plenty of nefarious evildoers who exploit the kindness and acceptance of others. Vigilance is not prejudice.
Jesus Christ’s life on earth could be a case study of prejudice. He was called the carpenter’s son in His hometown (Mt 13:55) in a demeaning tone that implied He could not possibly be a prophet, much less the Son of God sent from heaven. The Jewish leaders called Him demon possessed (Mk 3:22) and a glutton and a drunkard (Lk 7:34). “Those who took the time to listen to His message and watch His miracles and compassion did not have the same blind prejudices. Haven’t most of us had a similar experience of being shocked at how different a stranger becomes when we “walk a mile in their moccasins”?
The Holy Spirit has given us many scriptures telling us how to avoid prejudice towards other people. We are to love and serve our neighbors (Gal 5:13-14). Paul, inspired by God, told us how to treat strangers and outsiders. Be wise in the way we act and speak to them (Col 4:5-6). We are to lead a quiet life and work hard to win their respect (1 Th 4:11-12). Jesus expects His disciples to, “love your enemies and pray for them…” (Mt 5:44). If we first looked at others as being as loved by Christ as we are, it would be hard to show prejudice towards them.
-Jim Bailey
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